Establishing or Modifying Custody, Visitation, and Child Support in Oklahoma
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Legal Inquiry
Consumer Legal Issue
Change of custody agreement.
Child support and I want to see my son that's she's kept from me. No I have not.
Attorney Answer
You have two separate goals—getting child support in place and getting your court-ordered time with your son restored—and the right tool for each depends on whether a custody/support order already exists.
If no order has ever been entered (including if you and the mother were never married), you would first need to establish paternity and then file for an initial custody, visitation, and child support order. If an order already exists and is simply being violated, Oklahoma law gives a direct enforcement remedy: Title 43 § 111.3 lets a parent whose court-ordered visitation is denied file an enforcement motion, heard within 21 days, with remedies including compensating makeup visitation, attorney fees and costs, or other appropriate relief. Any request to change existing custody terms is governed by Title 43 § 112, which directs the court to focus on the child's best interests and requires a showing of changed circumstances to justify modification.
What you can do:
1. Confirm whether a custody/support order currently exists—if not, and paternity was never established, file to establish paternity alongside your custody and support case.
2. If an order exists and visitation is being withheld, file a Title 43 § 111.3 enforcement/contempt motion to compel makeup visitation.
3. File for child support (or a modification, if support was previously set) based on your current circumstances.
4. Speak with an Oklahoma family law attorney promptly, since this is your first time pursuing legal action on this matter.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What can I do if the other parent is withholding my court-ordered visitation?
Many states allow a parent to file an enforcement motion when visitation is denied, with remedies that can include makeup time or attorney fees.
Do I need to establish paternity before seeking custody or child support?
Generally yes, if the parents were never married, paternity typically must be established before a court can order custody, visitation, or support.
Can an existing custody order be changed?
Many states require a showing of changed circumstances and evaluate any modification request under a best-interests-of-the-child standard.
