Evicting an Adult Son Who Pays Rent Without a Written Lease — Washington's Just-Cause Rules May Still Apply
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Consumer Legal Issue
I want to evict my 39 year old son from my home. He has been here for 7 years and won’t leave. Can I do this without a lawyer? I’m worried about not having a lawyer for this….
There is NO formal rental agreement or lease and yes he pays me once a week but it’s not enough to cover everything including his children.
Attorney Answer
Because you live in the home with your son, a 20-day written notice to vacate is itself a recognized just cause in Washington — under RCW § 59.18.650(2)(i), an owner who shares the dwelling unit, or access to a common kitchen or bathroom, with the tenant may end the tenancy by serving at least 20 days' advance written notice to vacate before the end of the rental period. You do not have to find some other reason.
Under Revised Code of Washington § 59.18.650, a landlord generally cannot evict a tenant or end a tenancy except for one of the specific causes the statute enumerates, and the written notice must identify the facts supporting that cause. Because your son pays rent regularly, he likely qualifies as a tenant under Washington's landlord-tenant law, meaning this just-cause requirement applies even without a written lease. The cause that fits your situation is the shared-housing ground in § 59.18.650(2)(i) — he lives in your home with you — and because he pays weekly, serve the notice at least 20 days before the end of a weekly rental period and set the vacate date for the end of that period. Do not build your notice on RCW § 59.18.200: the 20-day notice in that section is one the tenant gives the landlord to move out, not a termination tool a landlord can use. A landlord's notice period comes from the particular cause invoked under § 59.18.650(2) and runs anywhere from 3 to 90 days depending on the ground. Serving the wrong type of notice, or one without a valid stated cause, is the most common reason these cases get dismissed or delayed for months.
What you can do:
1. Confirm the shared-housing ground applies — you and your son live in the same dwelling — rather than searching for a different just cause you do not need.
2. Prepare and serve a written notice to vacate that gives at least 20 days before the end of a weekly rental period and states that it is given under RCW § 59.18.650(2)(i).
3. Get at least a brief consult with a local attorney, or use a Washington tenant-landlord legal aid clinic, before serving notice.
4. Keep records of rent payments and communications in case the matter proceeds to court.
⏱ Time limits apply. Washington's statewide just-cause eviction law likely applies to this arrangement, meaning an improper or premature notice can be dismissed by the court and significantly delay the eviction. An individual case review by a local attorney should be conducted promptly to confirm the correct notice type and timing for your situation.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Does paying rent informally make someone a legal tenant?
In many states, regularly paying rent, even without a written lease, can establish a tenancy, meaning standard eviction procedures generally apply.
Can a family member be evicted without a stated legal reason?
In many states with just-cause eviction requirements, a landlord must identify one of a specific list of legally recognized reasons in the eviction notice, even in an informal family arrangement.
Is it advisable to handle a residential eviction without an attorney?
Self-representation is possible in many states, but a brief consultation with an attorney or legal aid clinic can help ensure correct notice type and timing, since procedural errors often delay or dismiss eviction cases.