What Happens After Violating an Idaho No-Contact Order
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Legal Inquiry
Consumer Legal Issue
Me and my gf have a 2 year nco and I broke it and her attorney found out what do I do.
Attorney Answer
Stop all contact right now, and do not try to explain this to anyone but your own lawyer — each contact is a separate crime, and her agreement to talk is not a defense.
Idaho Code § 18-920 makes it a distinct criminal offense to have contact with a protected person in violation of a no-contact order issued in an assault, battery, or domestic violence case. A first or second violation is a misdemeanor, punishable by up to one year in jail and a fine of up to $1,000. A third violation within five years is a felony, punishable by up to five years and a fine of up to $5,000, and no bond may be set on that charge until the person is brought before the court. The statute also expressly provides that a violation may result in the increase, revocation, or modification of the bond set in the underlying charge. That last point is the one people underestimate: the immediate risk is not only a new case, it is losing your release on the case you already have.
Understand whose order this is. The no-contact order was entered by the court, not by your girlfriend. She cannot waive it, consent to contact, or call it off, and the fact that she answered or initiated the contact does not make the contact lawful. Only the judge can change the order, and the only lawful way to have contact is to ask the court to modify it first.
Her attorney knowing is significant. Expect that information to reach the prosecutor, and expect a motion regarding your bond or release conditions. That process can move quickly, which is why the next few days matter.
What you can do
1. Cut off contact completely, starting now. That includes calls, texts, social media of any kind, and messages passed through friends or family. Contact through a third party is still contact. 2. Do not delete anything. Deleting messages does not remove them — she has them, and her attorney apparently has them — and destroying evidence can add a separate charge and will be read as consciousness of guilt. 3. Do not explain yourself to her lawyer, to the prosecutor, or to police. Anything you say to justify the contact is an admission that the contact happened. If you are contacted, say you want a lawyer and stop there. 4. Call your defense attorney today if you have one, or apply for a public defender if you do not. Tell them the full extent of the contact before they hear it from the other side; a surprise at a bond hearing is much worse than a bad fact they were ready for. 5. Ask your lawyer to prepare for a bond review, since § 18-920 expressly allows a violation to trigger increase, revocation, or modification of your bond. 6. If you and she both genuinely want contact restored, have your lawyer file a motion to modify the no-contact order. That is the only route that works, and courts do sometimes grant it — but only in advance, never retroactively. 7. Change the practical conditions that make violations happen: block the number, mute the accounts, and stay away from places you know she goes. Judges notice the difference between someone who stopped and someone who says he will.
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Frequently Asked Questions
She contacted me first — doesn't that matter?
Not as a defense to the violation. The order restrains you, and it was entered by the court rather than by her, so she has no power to consent to contact or to lift it. Who initiated may affect how a prosecutor or judge views your conduct, but it does not make the contact lawful under Idaho Code § 18-920.
Will I go to jail for this?
A first or second violation of a no-contact order is a misdemeanor carrying up to one year in jail and a fine of up to $1,000, so jail is possible but far from automatic. The nearer-term exposure is to your bond in the underlying case, which § 18-920 allows the court to increase, revoke, or modify because of the violation. What you do between now and the hearing affects both.
Can we ask the judge to drop the no-contact order?
Your lawyer can file a motion to modify or terminate it, and that is the only lawful route to contact. It should be filed before any further contact, not after — a pending motion is not permission. Understand that a recent violation makes a judge less likely to grant it, which is another reason the contact needs to stop immediately.